FAQ

My typical availability goes from 10am-10pm every day. My calendar fills up fast however, so it is highly encouraged that you book in advance by at least a couple of days. Same-day requests will be ignored.

This is a great and important question! One of my favorite things about this work is the opportunity to help people learn about themselves and find new ways of expression and fun. I cannot, however, take the first steps for you. I highly encourage looking around kinky social media, porn sites, or kink inventory lists to see what catches your eye. Take the time to introspect and garner curiosity about what might be for you and why. I’m happy to have sessions that explore a wide variety of kinks to help you find the ones that suit you.

First of all, thank you for considering your impression! The basics for getting on my good side are communicating politely and clearly, following screening and scheduling directions, and showing up on time. If you want to go above and beyond you can send a tip or gift ahead of your arrival using my wishlists, or bring a tip or gift with you. Some ideas include whiskey, lingerie, teas, or books.

Potentially! You can contact me to discuss a “fly me to you” rate, though please understand that clients seeking these are expected to pay travel costs and lodging for the trip.

Please let me know which city you wish to see me in, a brief description of what you’re seeking, the length of session you would like, and a few potential dates and times that would suit your calendar. If you would like a duo, couple’s session, or any other kind of specific session this is also the time to mention it. Sending your screening information in the request will help streamline the process as well, see the next question for more information.

I require either a photo ID or a reference from an active, reputable provider you have seen within the past year. When sending reference information, be sure to include a link to their ad, their email address, and a memory jogger that will help them remember who you are. It’s also polite to email them first and ask if they will give you the referral, not all providers do so, and many others appreciate a heads-up that another domme will be contacting them.

You should arrive on time, not early nor late. If you will be unavoidably early, please do not sit in your vehicle or loiter around the outside of my space. Please find somewhere else to be until your appointment time. If you will be unavoidably late, please let me know as soon as possible. The only exception to this is at my Grand Rapids dungeon: arrive there 5 minutes early and email me so I can direct you to the dungeon.

I will contact you the morning of our session to get you the address. You will arrive on time (not early nor late) to my space, sober, tidy, and wearing street clothes, with the tribute in cash in an envelope in your pocket or bag. I ask that if you arrive at my Dallas dungeon early you do not park outside of the space, find somewhere else to be until our agreed upon time. Expect to sit and talk for the first few minutes of our encounter, touching base before play is essential to make sure we are on the same page regarding safety. I also appreciate the opportunity to get to know you and feel mutually comfortable. Once we have gone over safety and expectations, we will explore the agreed-upon activities. At the end of our time together, I will wind the activities to a close, then offer aftercare.

You may, so long as you bring it into the space in a discreet way. Never wear or carry uncovered fetish gear when approaching my dungeon.

Then I am not the provider for you, and seeing a provider in general is probably not for you. Screening is essential, you are not the exception.

Great question! I care deeply about the safety of my clients, and every aspect of my work takes into consideration their wellbeing. I discuss boundaries, both physical and mental, at the beginning of every session, and go over safe words often. I always, always play with a safe word in place, so please do not request a safe wordless session. I also value the privacy of my clients, and endeavor to always work to maintain their discretion.

You absolutely do not have to, and I will not pressure you! There are many ways to enjoy BDSM and fetish play that don’t involve pain, and I am happy to play painlessly.

Aftercare is the time taken after a scene when the participants check in with one another and tend to any needs. It can include chatting about life, eating a snack, stretching, cuddling, debriefing about the scene, or any other agreed-upon activity intended to get everyone ready to go about the rest of their day. I dedicate the last 10 minutes of the session to aftercare unless you request otherwise.

I have a well established web presence and am verified on multiple platforms. I recommend checking out my extensive amount of content online if you’re concerned about whether I am a real person or not. Please do not ask me to prove myself to you.